Archive for July, 2009

Sports for Children with Autism

July 23, 2009

There was a good article in the Washington Post yesterday about a boy with autism who swims on a local swim team.  Kids with autism can benefit a lot from playing sports, as can their neurotypical peers from having them on the teams.  Swimming is one of the better sports for kids with autism because it is both individual, without a lot of complex requirements, yet still social in that kids are still part of a team.

Participating in sports can help kids with autism and other disabilities in many ways.  Sports give kids with disabilities confidence, improve socialization, get more oxygen to the brain, improve coordination, help them stay in shape, help them sleep better, improve cognitive function by improving proprioception (the body’s sense of where it is in space), and reduce inappropriate behaviors.  Improvements in fine and gross motor skills often go hand in hand with improvements in academic and cognitive function.  Certain exercises can relax kids and even help align both hemispheres of the brain.  And of course, sports are also a lot of fun.

Kids with autism often like swimming, trampoline, and swinging.  This gives us clues on what kind of sensory input they need.  What is the best sport for children with autism?  I tried to answer the question a couple of years ago at http://www.coachmike.net/autism-faq.php#12.  I think the real answer is, “Whatever they like best.”  In order to find out whatever they like best, we need to get rid of our preconceived notions and expose them to as many athletic opportunities as possible.  I learned this after coaching a child in soccer a few years ago who ultimately ended up playing hockey.  I never would have thought hockey would be a great sport for kids with autism because of the need to skate and handle a stick simultaneously, but it turns out that it can be great, and it just goes to show that we shouldn’t put limitations on anyone.

Sports can be more effective for kids with disabilities when they are mixed in with academics and social skills.  You can do a half hour of sports followed by a half hour of schoolwork, followed by a half hour of social skills.  Each area helps the child generalize and build on the previous one. Sometimes people make the mistake, though well intentioned, of segregating each activity to the point where each one is facilitated by different specialists who, worst-case scenario, don’t coordinate and communicate with each other.  In any case, each activity should transition and relate to the others, and ideally, you can do some academic work while moving at the same time.  One example is to play catch or jump on a trampoline while answering questions.  This helps with sensory integration.  Yoga is also great for balance and relaxation, and deep breathing and meditation exercises can help improve the attention spans of children and reduce unwanted behaviors at the same time.

For a high functioning child, you can have him or her play in a league with typical peers, preferably a couple of years younger than the child who has autism.  The child has a “shadow” who helps integrate him or her with the other children athletically and socially.  I’ve facilitated in this way, and also coached Special Olympics soccer, and both can be great depending on the situation.  See www.soccerideas.net for ideas on drills.  It’s the same concept as in school – sometimes it’s best for kids to be mainstreamed into the typical school environment, and other times it’s best for them to be in a self-contained (special education) classroom, and often the best of both worlds is a combination of both, depending on the situation.

Exercises are great, but it’s best to do ones that are meaningful in the context of sports, so that children can eventually be part of a team, or at least play in impromptu games after school, or even use imagination to make up their own games.  It’s how kids learn best – not just sitting at a desk doing work, but getting along with others, being spontaneous, thinking on the fly.

A lot of people are familiar with the amazing story of Jason McElwain, an autistic teenager who scored 6 three-point baskets for his high school team a few years ago.  This type of success doesn’t happen a lot, but it would never happen if too many limitations are put on children who have autism and other disabilities who want to play sports.

I’d like to add one other thing.  While parents shouldn’t push their kids too hard into sports, they should expose them to sports and in some cases kids may need a nudge.  You wouldn’t tell your child who says, “I don’t want to do math” that it’s ok to avoid homework just because he or she doesn’t want to do it.  Math is necessary and good for kids.  Sports may be good for them as well, so don’t be so quick to say, “He doesn’t want to do it.”  In any case, it’s better to try something new that to do the same things over and over.  Sometimes I think parents are more autistic than the kids themselves – not willing to try anything new, just doing the same old x number of hours of therapy sitting at a desk in a vacuum.  And playing sports is certainly better than sitting inside and watching TV.

Ok, that reminds me, I have one other thing to add.  Today, a lot of kids play video games, and one video game that can be beneficial is the Nintendo Wii, which has simulated sports that can create an interest in real sports (tennis, bowling, baseball), as well as fitness (yoga, exercises, and running).

For people in the Bethesda/Montgomery County, MD/Washington, DC areas, there are several sports-related opportunities for children with autism.

  • Kids Enjoy Exercise Now (KEEN, www.keenusa.org) is a free, volunteer-run sports program for kids with disabilities.  There is a waiting list that was up to a year long the last time I checked, but they don’t turn anyone away unless they are over 21.  KEEN has a general sports program, a swim program, a music program, and a Teen Club for higher functioning children to do outings.  KEEN has chapters in Bethesda, Washington, DC, and several more across the country, and even a few in England, where KEEN began.
  • Sports Plus, based in Germantown, MD, has sports leagues for kids with high functioning autism (www.playsportsplus.org).
  • Fitness for Health in Rockville has some excellent equipment and specializes in one on one training sessions.  See http://www.fitnessforhealth.org/.
  • Special Olympics provides sports for not only children but also adults with disabilities: http://www.somdmontgomery.org/.  The Special Olympics national website is http://www.specialolympics.org/.
  • There are a few youth hockey programs in the area such as the Montgomery Cheetahs (www.montgomerycheetahs.org).

Elsewhere, check with your local schools and governments, or search the web to see what is out there.

Health Care Reform: Obama, Autism, Mental Illness, and Kidney Disease

July 22, 2009

I thought President Obama made a good speech tonight on the case for national health care reform, stating that insurance companies have too much say over who and what is covered, nearly 50 million people don’t have health insurance, 14,000 people lose their health insurance each day, and insurance premiums have doubled in the last 10 years.  Everyone should be covered, he said, and people shouldn’t be disqualified for certain conditions.  Of course, Hillary Clinton tried to reform health care – 16 years ago when Obama was 30 years old.  Something tells me this time around it will be better accepted. I hope it gets passed, but I’m not holding my breath. Anyway, there are a lot of areas that are in need of health care reform.

Autism Speaks (www.autismspeaks.org) has launched a TV ad campaign to try to combat the health care discrimination against people with autism that currently exists.  Autism Speaks aims to ensure that autism is covered in any new national health care plan.  Currently, most states do not require health insurers to cover certain medically necessary autism therapies.  Therefore, parents of children with autism have a choice to spend money out of pocket for autism therapy, or go without.  Many don’t have the choice because they can’t afford it anyway.  Personally, I always feel a little bit guilty because the work that I do (www.coachmike.net) for kids with autism ends up being mainly for those whose parents are fairly affluent because they can afford it.

In addition to autism, mental illness should also be covered by any national health care plan.  Currently, insurance companies can discriminate against people with mental illness by calling it a pre-existing condition.  According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, “As many as 700,000 Americans are homeless on any given night. An estimated 20 to 25 percent of these people have a serious mental illness.”  How can we afford to cover autism and mental illness?  How can we afford not to?  The savings in the long run will more than pay off the costs in the short run.

I have a stake in health insurance myself, as my kidney disease (see www.mikeneedsakidney.com) will eventually require a transplant from a donor.  My current insurance will cover most of it, but “most” isn’t ideal since the cost of the surgery and the medications in the first two years could approach $200,000.  Think of dealing with an insurance company on the phone, then think of doing it either just before or after you’ve had a transplant.  Also, coverage ends after three years for transplant recipients even though immunosuppressant drugs are needed for a lifetime.  Needless to say, people who have the same health insurance as Congress would have everything 100% covered.The moral of the story?  Don’t get sick.

Also, see “Fun with Health Insurance” on my blog – go to the links on the right side, click, “Kidney Disease,” and scroll down to the second item.  I cut and pasted a bunch of posts I read on a kidney disease site.

On another personal note, I can say anecdotally that there is still a lot of resistance to national health care.  On match.com, I’ll sometimes communicate with women who list that they are “middle of the road” politically.  I always say that there are a couple of issues that I feel strongly about.  The first issue is the environment.  I’m for a clean one.  I believe that a lot of diseases, disorders, and deaths occur because of pollution in the environment.  The second issue is health care.  I say that I believe that everyone should have a fair chance at affordable health care regardless of whether they are rich or poor, healthy or sick.  I don’t say much more or less than that.  A bunch of times I’ve gotten a response from women, even in relatively liberal Maryland, Washington DC, and Northern Virginia similar to this one:  “Wow.  Maybe we shouldn’t meet.”*** – see below

You wouldn’t say that only certain people should get schooling paid for, or that only specific areas should get libraries, or that roads and bridges should be built and maintained in some areas but not others.  But somehow, it’s ok to say that some people should get health insurance and others shouldn’t, or that some people should get their health insurance terminated for pre-existing conditions.

*** Update, 7/25:  This is an actual email exchange from today, word for word, nothing left out.  When I saw her response I thought I must have provoked it but here is exactly what I wrote, followed by exactly what she wrote.  If anything, my initial email was pretty boring and a little uninspired, but certainly not inflammatory in any way.  So maybe health care reform doesn’t have much of a chance.

What I wrote:

“Hi. I liked your pics and profile. I like MD too. Would you like to meet sometime? There’s one thing. With the health care stuff you do and the middle of the road politics, what do you think about everyone deserving a fair chance at good health care? If you agree with that then you agree with me. anyway, let meknow what you think.

mike”

What she wrote back:

“Definitely probably not a good match then. I do not feel like paying for peoples’ health insurance who are too lazy to work and usurping the welfare system. Living in Baltimore, I already see this and it will only get worse. Also, I have seen first hand in other countries who have universal health care… the length of time it takes to get a doctors appointment and hopefully get the doctor you want. I can lead to unsatisfactory health care. Obama said it will not come off of the backs of the middle class but I do not believe that for a second. You want to pay for everyone elses healthcare? Go for it! I guess some of my views are more Conservative, this is one that I do not want to ruin my happy little employed life. I do feel sorry for those who have lost their jobs and I do think that there could be a package of some sort to help those folks, but other than that, I do not feel like paying for worthless slackers and people who do not choose to make their lives better. I certainly do not want to start a political debate with you, so please let’s not go there, but I have strong views on this and I do not want to get screwed anymore than I already have been. I already pay a huge amount of taxes and they do not seem to care that I am a single women and just barely scraping by. I am sure you will send a wonderful email back, so instead of having to bare hearing I am just going to block you. Good luck in your search and there are plenty of women, perhaps lower class that will agree with you… or you may just want to stick to DC because Baltimore women (at least the ones I have talked to) are on the Conservative side of this topic. I wish you all the luck in your search!”

Maybe it was a Freudian slip when she said, “I can lead to unsatisfactory health care.”

On the bright side, she does seem a little fiery.  :)

How to Drive and Park in a Parking Garage

July 15, 2009

I thought I’d remind people of the rules for driving in a parking garage.   They’re not that much different than regular driving rules, really.

  1. Stay on the right side of the road.  The same rules apply as if you were driving on the street.  If you were in England, you’d drive on the left; if you knew you were the only person in the garage, you could drive in the middle; but barring those two situations, you should drive on the right.
  2. Neither drive as fast as you can, recklessly disregarding the possibility that someone might be around the corner, nor go incredibly slow, tentatively hoping that you will find a spot.  Try to strike a balance between the two extremes.
  3. It may not be worth it to sit there forever and wait for people who get into their cars to leave so that you can get their spots.  Why not just drive to the first spot that’s already open?  You might find that even though you have to park on a higher level, it might be just as close if not closer to the stairway or elevator so you won’t have to walk as much.

This was inspired by the parking garage in Bethesda between Bethesda Ave., Woodmont Ave., and Elm Street.  I know, I need to find more inspirational things to write about.

Two “Mother” Excuses in 24 Hours. Solid!

July 15, 2009

Twice in a 24-hour period last month, I had women cancel dates with me because they had to do something with their mothers. I think this should be eligible for some sort of recognition.  I don’t think it’s unprecedented, but it probably makes some sort of short list.  The actual text is below.

This first one came from someone from match.com.  The excuse might have been legitimate, but she never responded to my subsequent emails or call.

Hi Mike,

Unfortunately, I can’t make it tomorrow night now.  My mom has guests in town and asked me to join them for dinner.  Give me a call when you have time and we’ll figure something else out.

The same day I got a text message from someone else saying:

Mike I totally forgot and I am sorry but I can’t make it. I am taking mom to airport. Please forgive me.

I never heard from her again, but this one had met me and typed my number into her phone…and asked for my last name.  That was the killer because nowadays most people google someone they are about to see and I assume she saw the www.mikeneedsakidney.com site.  I try not to mention that before the first date, even though when it’s all said and done, it’ll be just a blip on the radar screen.

Anyway, cancellations happen all the time, but if both excuses were fake, I think that’s a noteworthy accomplishment – two mother excuses with a 24-hour stretch.  Solid.  :)

The Daily Show: Samantha, Bee Nice

July 15, 2009

I love the Daily Show but a couple of weeks ago Samantha Bee was making a joke about the House of Representatives, saying, “They eat paste and wear a helmet.  It’s the one that likes bright colors and hates loud noises.  I’m saying that they’re dumb.”

I don’t get offended too easily, but this is inappropriate and I would think very insulting to people with disabilities.  Here are a couple of examples:  Some people may need to wear helmets because they are prone to seizures.  And certain children and adults with autism may have very sensitive hearing so they hear things much more loudly than most people do, so it’s not their fault if they are startled by loud noises.

Books on Tape/Audiobooks for sale on Amazon.com

July 11, 2009

Imagine you’re driving a long, boring commute.  You’re tired of hearing the same songs over and over.  Even on satellite radio, the stations play the same stuff again and again.  Music CDs get old too.  Even the news, unless you listen to BBC or something else international, covers no more than a few stories over and over, without much depth.  Sports radio?  Gets old fast.  Howard Stern?  They replay the same stuff over and over.

What is the solution?  Books on tape (or nowadays, books on CD) can help.  More and more people are trying to use their time productively whether they are in the car or taking public transportation to work. They’re also great for people who are blind or cannot read for other reasons.  (I’m pretty sure there’s a way to transfer audio books from CD to Ipod, though I haven’t done it myself.)

I have a couple of hundred books on CD/audiobooks that I am selling on amazon.com.  My prices are the lowest on amazon.   My prices for used audiobooks (all of mine are used) range from from $4.50 to $49.99.  Some of the audiobooks when new were originally priced at over $100 because some of them have more than 15 CDs.  A lot of people list the prices sky high if they have the only copy available of a particular book on amazon because of supply and demand, but I list a lot of them at $29.99 even if I have the only copy for sale on amazon.

Some of the authors include: John Grisham, Stephen King, Jane Austen, J.R.R. Tolkien, Jack Kerouac, William F. Buckley, and Jackie Collins.  A couple of the titles include:  “Worse Than Watergate:  The Secret Presidency of George W. Bush” by John Dean, and “The Google Story” by David Vise.

The list is below and also at http://www.amazon.com/shops/mikeneedsakidneydotcom.  (A few of these books are hardcover books on art, sports, or other topics but I didn’t have time to edit those out from the list).  Thanks for looking.

Straken (High Druid of Shannara) [Audiobook] [Unabridged] by Brooks, Terry
Poet, The [Audiobook] [CD] [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Connelly, Michael
The Surgeon [Unabridged] by Gerritsen, Tess; Marshall, Christine
Blood Canticle (Vampire Chronicles) by Rice, Anne; Pittu, David
Hide Yourself Away by Clark, Mary Jane; Valle, Melissa Delany del
Sisters Three [Audiobook] [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Stirling, Jessica
The Patient [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
Jazz [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Toni Morrison; Lynne Thigpen
The Good Guys [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio CD] by Bill Bonanno; Joe Pistone
Call it sleep [Audiobook] [Unabridged] by Henry Roth; George Guidall
To the Last Man: A Novel of the First World War [Audio CD] by JEFF SHAARA
Game of Kings [UNABRIDGED CD] (Audiobook) (The Lymond Chronicles, Book 1)
Neanderthal [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
The Empty Chair (Chivers Sound Library American Collections) [Unabridged]
Bearing an Hourglass [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
L.A. Requiem [Audio CD] by ROBERT CRAIS; RON MCLARTY
Acqua Alta (8 Audio CDs) [Unabridged] by Leon, Donna; Fields, Anna
The Romanov Prophecy by Berry, Steve; Michael, Paul
The Marching Season [Audio CD] by DANIEL SILVA; FRANK MULLER
Black House [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
McNally’s Caper [Unabridged] by Lawrence Sanders; NARRATOR
Sara’s Song (Chivers Sound Library American Collections) [Unabridged]
A Time to Kill (Unabridged) [Audio CD] by John Grisham; Alexander Adams
The Bounty – The True Story of the Mutiny on the Bounty [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
Cloud Atlas by Mitchell, David; Full Cast
The Perfect Storm [Audio CD]
Dune: Butlerian Jihad (Dune) [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Brian Herbert
The Hook (Chivers Sound Library American Collections) [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
Dark Horse by Hoag, Tami; McDonald, Beth
The Judas Pair: A Lovejoy Mystery [UNABRIDGED] (Audio CD) [Audio CD]
The Happiest Toddler on the Block (Unabridged) [Audio Cassette]
Carry Me Home [Audio Cassette] by Sandra Kring
The Drowning Tree (1930′s Trilogy) [Audio CD] by Goodman, Carol
The World According to Garp [Unabridged CDs] [Audio CD] by John Irving
The Hammer of God (Recorded Books, Inc.) [Audio CD] by Arthur C. Clarke
Ariel (Unabridged) [Audio CD] by Lawrence Block
Afterburn [Audio CD] by Colin Harrison; Pete Bradbury
Some Kind of Miracle [Audio CD] by Dart, Iris Rainer; Driscoll, Moria
Cuba Libre [Audiobook] by Leonard, Elmore; Guidall, George
Taking Heart (Unabridged) [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Carol Doumani; Mary Peiffer
The Ten Commandments: The Significance of God’s Laws in Everyday Life [Audio CD]
Touching Evil [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Kay Hooper; Alyssa Bresnahan
Antietam: Library Edition (Civil War Battle) [Unabridged] by Reasoner, James
Oblivion by Abrahams, Peter; Marks, Ken
Cape Breton Road [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio CD] by D. R. MacDonald
On the Road [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Kerouac, Jack; Parker, Tom
Mama (Chivers Sound Library American Collections) [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
The Ship of Brides–Collector’s and Library Edition [Audio CD] by Jojo Moyes
The Return of the King & The Annals of the King & Rulers (UNABRIDGED CD EDITION)
Sense and Sensibility [Audiobook] [Unabridged] by Jane Austen; Donada Peters
Stargazey [Unabridged CDs Library Edition] [Audio CD] by Martha Grimes
Isle of Dogs [Unabridged] [Audio Cassette] by Cornwell, Patricia Daniels
Fred & Edie [Audiobook] [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Jill Dawson
Dating Is Murder [Audiobook] [Unabridged] by Kozak, Harley Jane
Impressions of an Irish by Davison, David H.
Garlic and Sapphires: The Secret Life of a Critic in Disguise by Reichl, Ruth
Blood Lure (Anna Pigeon mysteries) [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio CD]
Nuremberg: Library Edition [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Buckley, William F.
Haunted in Death (In Death) [Audiobook] [CD] [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
Losing America – Confronting a Reckless and Arrogant Presidency [Unabridged]
The Friday Night Knitting Club [Audio CD] by Kate Jacobs
Duplicate Keys [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
Dedication [Audiobook] [CD] [Unabridged] [Audio CD]; West, Ashley
Found (Firstborn Series-Baxter 2, Book 3) [Abridged] [Audio CD]; Burr, Sandra
The Age of Innocence: Library Edition [Preloaded Digital Audio Player]
Strategy by Liddell Hart, Basil H.
Crusader [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Brand, Max; Lawlor, Patrick
Hostage (Brilliance Audio on Compact Disc) [Abridged] [Audiobook] [CD]
Superman on Radio: Library Edition (Old Time Radio) by Smithsonian Institution
Between Lovers [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Eric Jerome Dickey; Dion Graham
Lascaux (French Edition) [Hardcover] by Bataille, Georges
The Pearl Harbor Murders [Audiobook] [Unabridged] [Audio CD]; Jeff Woodman
The Sweet Potato Queens’ Field Guide to Men : Every Man I Love is Either Marr…
The Last King of Scotland [Audio CD] by Foden, Giles; Willis, Mirron E.
Mix with love: Cookbook for dogs by Herbig, Maddelena
The Talisman [Audiobook] [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Stephen King; Peter Straub
A Blessed Event [Audio CD] by Jean Reynolds Page; Carrington MacDuffie
Testament (A Soldier’s Story of the Civil War) [Audio CD] by Benson Bobrick
Little Altars Everywhere [Unabridged Library Edition] [Audio CD]; Judith Ivey
Bridesmaids Revisited (An Ellie Haskell Mystery) [Audio CD] by Dorothy Cannell
H.M.S. Surprise (Aubrey-Maturin, Volume 3 in the series) [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
The Warmest December [Audio CD] by Bernice L. McFadden; Myra Lucretia Taylor
Nothing Like it in the World [Audio CD]
The Winter Queen (Erast Fandorin Mysteries) by Akunin, Boris; Kramer, Michael
The Bishop and the Beggar Girl of St. Germain [Audiobook] [Unabridged]
Secret Justice: Library Edition [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Huston, James W.
The Secret Hunters [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [CD] [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
American Folk Decoration [Unknown Binding]
KNOCKNAGOW OR THE HOMES OF TIPPERARY [Hardcover] by Kickham, Charles
The Government and Politics of China [Hardcover] by Ch’ien Tuan-sheng
Julie of the Wolves [Unabridged] (Audio CD) [Audiobook] [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
The Unashamed Accompanist [Import] [Hardcover] by Gerald Moore; Geoffrey Parsons
English Passengers [Audiobook] [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Matthew Kneale
Fijian Protocol by Dari, Willie; Petit-Skinner, Solange
The Lost Painting: The Quest for a Caravaggio Masterpiece [Audiobook]
The Manchurian Candidate [Audio CD] by Condon, Richard; Hurt, Christopher
The Communist Manifesto. Authorized English Translation [Paperback]
Terminal: A Burke Novel (Burke) [Audiobook] [CD] [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
The Google Story by Vise, David A.; Malseed, Mark; Hoye, Stephen
Turncoat: Library Edition [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Elkins, Aaron J.
Jackdaws [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Ken Follett
Demolition Angel [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Robert Crais; Paul Hecht
Thrill! [Audio CD] by Jackie Collins
Faster [Audio CD] by James Gleick
Every Little Thing About You [Audio CD] by Lori Wick
Black Maps [Audio CD] by Peter Spiegelman
The Religion [Complete and Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Tim Willocks; Simon Vance
A Loving Scoundrel [Audio CD] by Johanna Lindsey
Murder Runs in the Family [Audio CD] by Anne George
Islam Unveiled Disturbing Questions About the World’s Fastest Growing Faith: …
The Young Man [Audio CD] by Brendan O’Carroll
Foreign Fruit [Audio CD] by Jojo Moyes
The Devil’s Advocate [Audio CD] by Morris West
Buried Onions [Audio CD] by Gary Soto
In Colt Blood [Audio CD] by Jody Jaffe
Known Dead [Audio CD] by Donald Harstad
Another Song About the King [Audio CD] by Kathryn Stern
The Return of the Native [Audio CD] by Thomas Hardy
Death Goes on Retreat: Library Edition [Unabridged] by O’Marie, Carol Anne
The Judas Testament [Audio CD] by Daniel Easterman
Places in the Dark [Audio CD] by Thomas H. Cook
Black Heat [Audio CD] by Norman Kelley
The Third Victim [Audio CD] by Lisa Gardner
zzGlory in Death [Audio CD] by zzJ. D. Robb; zzCristine McMurdo-Wallis
Resort to Murder [Audio CD] by Carolyn Hart
Bitter Medicine [Audio CD] by Sara Paretsky
Being the Fourth Jane Austen Mystery: Jane and the Genius of the Place
The Rapture of Canaan [Audio CD] by Sheri Reynolds
A Wild and Lonely Place [Audio CD] by Marcia Muller
Worse Than Watergate: The Secret Presidency of George W. Bush [Audiobook]
The Train Now Departing : Two Novellas [Audio CD] by Martha Grimes
Sharpe’s Eagle: Richard Sharpe and the Talavara Campaign, July 1809 (Richard …
Ethical Assassin, The [Audiobook] [CD] [Unabridged] [Audio CD] by Liss, David
One Hundred Years Of Art In Israel [Illustrated] by Ofrat, Gideon
Le Divorce [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio CD] by Diane Johnson; Suzanne Toren
A heritage of grandeur by Crutchfield, James Andrew
Washington Redskins Danny Wuerffel Jersey 2XL
The Final Days [Unabridged] by Olson, Barbara
Monkeys (Animalways) [Library Binding] by Zabludoff, Marc
The New Art by Lorch, Catrin; Morton, Tom; Kopsa, Maxine; Hunt, Andrew
The Vision of Emma Blau [Abridged] by Hegi, Ursula; Edwards-Fukei, Kim
The Tender Years (Prairie Legacy Series #1) [Unabridged] [Audio CD]
Kitchen Privileges [UNABRIDGED] (Audiobook) [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio CD]
A Christmas Carol [Audiobook] [Unabridged] by Dickens, Charles; Dale, Jim
Sula [Audio CD] by Toni Morrison; Lynne Thigpen
Footprints of God, The (Brilliance Audio on Compact Disc) [Audiobook] [CD]
Babyville [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio CD] by JANE GREEN; KATE READING
House Call [Hardcover] by Darden North
The Hot Flash Club [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio CD] by Nancy Thayer
100 Years in Zambia: What Is God Teaching Us When One Culture Meets Another?
NEW YORK, Cobb’s America Guyed Book Series [Hardcover] by Cobb, Irvin S.
FRENCH ART OF THE 18TH CENTURY [Hardcover] by Gilou, Abert & Spar, Francis; 0
Before You Know Kindness [Audiobook] [Unabridged] by Bohjalian, Chris A.
Inglés Esencial: Básico – Intermedio by Living Language
Meeting of Eastern and Western Art by Sullivan, Michael
The Botox Diaries [Audio CD] by Janice Kaplan & Lynn Schnurnberger
Piranesi As Designer [Hardcover] by Sarah E. Lawrence; John Wilton-Ely
Book of Q [Unabridged] [Audiobook] [Audio Cassette] by Jonathan Rabb
Sports Illustrated 17th Annual Swimsuit Issue Magazine Christie Brinkley Febr…
The Elect [Paperback] by James Gilbert
Painters of the Italian Renaissance [Hardcover] by Edith Healy; T. de Mare
Raid on the Sun: Inside Israel’s Secret Campaign That Denied Saddam the Bomb
American Medicinal Plants of Commercial Importance [Illustrated] [Paperback]
Songs of Harvard [Hardcover] by NOBLE,Lloyd Adams, compiler
Abenteuer in Berlin by Nohara, Komakichi
Sports Illustrated Magazine February 1980 – Christie Brinkley Bikini Cover
Angelica Kauffmann, R.A. 1741-1807 [Illustrated] [Hardcover]
Making the Ghost Dance [Paperback] by David Kranes
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Ten Most Underrated Countries in Western Europe

July 10, 2009
Here’s my list of the most underrated countries in Western Europe. Basically, I took away the largest, most well-known countries — England, France, Germany, Spain, Italy, etc., and listed some of the ones that get less publicity.  Of course, no countries are “better” than any other countries – this is just a fun list, not meant to be taken too seriously.  In fact, I haven’t been to Portugal or Iceland.  I guess I just like making lists.  Also, even though I like Sweden and Scotland more than Belgium, for example, Belgium ranks higher because it’s more underrated.
  1. Norway
  2. Denmark
  3. Luxembourg
  4. Belgium
  5. Portugal
  6. Finland
  7. Holland
  8. Iceland
  9. Sweden
  10. Scotland

Customer Service: A Lost Art

July 10, 2009

Customer service from various places has been terrible lately.  Maybe it’s the economy.  Anyway, the representatives are just ruthless.  Here’s a random sampling of experiences.

DirecTV.  My DVR wasn’t working right so they said they could send a technician out.  They didn’t tell me until after they had fixed it that it would cost $49.99.  Also, the technician charged me $15 for an extra 1-foot cable, which is all he did, and he wouldn’t take a credit card, so I had to give him a $20 bill, and he didn’t have change so he wanted to just leave but I made him go and get change.  Then I called DirecTV and got transferred to about five different people and I told them they should have told me beforehand that there would be a charge.  Finally, after talking to about six people the first five of whom disagreed with me, they agreed that they should have informed me of the charge beforehand.  But what happens to people who aren’t persistent and don’t stay on the phone for a half hour?  In the past I’ve also had to repeat the same things over and over to them as if they never take notes on calls.  Also, when I first started, their reps were in the habit of promising things just to sign you up and then a different rep would deny that this ever happened.  Grade:  F

Comcast.  They insisted I had not returned a cable box and that I owed $50.  After many, many hours on the phone with them, they finally agreed that it was a mistake.  But after that, I still got bills for it.  Plus, even though the charge was eventually reversed, my phone bill was an extra $50 because of all the time I spent on the phone with them.   One other note – I’ve talked with two different people who don’t have TV set up because they had so many problems with Comcast.  Grade:  F

Carbonite.  I had a specific issue for which I wanted specific help, but after emailing them about 15 times and saying, “please don’t just cut and paste instructions for me,” they continued to just cut and paste standard instructions for me.  Also, at one point they asked me to send them specific files.  I did and they never responded.  Then they said they’d call me back and they never did.  Finally I asked again and they did call back to resolve it.  Grade:  D

Linksys.  They reset the settings on my router for a one-time charge and insisted that I wouldn’t need anything else for two years.  It didn’t help and the wireless access was actually slower so I asked if I could get a refund or have it credited toward a new router or a 6-month plan but they said no.  They said they’d call me back but never did.  I emailed them but they didn’t respond.  Usually they are pretty good on chat, though.  Grade:  D

Verizon.  When I was first getting my internet access set up, I remember the representative being unbelievably verbose and speaking in long, drawn out ways, almost as if she was reading a telemarketing script instead of just being concise and getting to the point.  A couple of other times they’ve been ok.  Grade:  C

Apple.  Generally, they’ve been pretty helpful.  Grade:  B

Best Buy Geek Squad.  I had a lot of problems with my PC and they weren’t helpful to say the least.  One of many examples:  I brought my laptop in because the touchpad, the left click button, whatever you call it, was always slightly depressed so that wherever the cursor, or the little hand, whatever you call it, was pointing on the web, it would occasionally just click on it without me touching it.  Example.  I’m writing an email and it’s halfway done.  The cursor is pointing over the “send” button but I’m not touching the computer at all.  The computer sends the email.  Best Buy insisted that there was nothing wrong with it because they supposedly couldn’t duplicate the problem even though this clicking when I wasn’t touching the pc happened about five times an hour every day for half a year.  You can see the left button is physically lower down by about a millimeter than it should be.  Grade:  F

Sirius Satellite Radio.  Keeping in mind that this would be easier than internet access or computers, generally, they’ve been good. Grade:  B

Southwest. I typed in my voucher code when I made a flight and it didn’t work.  I hope this isn’t a way for them to save money. But when I callled, they fixed the problem.  I guess there isn’t too much that can go wrong with airlines compared with technical companies, but if I list the bad ones I should also list the good ones.  Grade:  B

A Seller Tool.  They usually say, “just follow the instructions on the website.”  They aim to save time this way but they actually increase time spent because people have to keep calling back.  If they would just walk people through it a little bit, it would save time for everyone.  Grade:  D

A.C. Moore in Rockville, MD. This may not fit here, but I wanted to include it because I had a good experience there.  I bought 8 frames – of course they didn’t come with the brackets on the back.  I had to buy those separately, and they had those tiny nails that are impossible to use.  The guy at the counter agreed to do it right then and there for free.  I would have expected to have to wait and/or pay.  Grade:  A

Post Office, Bethesda, MD. I love the post office in Bethesda on Wisconsin Avenue.  It’s open 24 hours and they have one of those self-serve machines that you can use to send packages and other mail.  There is also one at the branch on Arlington Road but they close early.  The staff at both places are great.  Grade:  A

Ten Most Underrated Fruits

July 10, 2009
  1. Coconuts
  2. Pears
  3. Peaches
  4. Cranberries
  5. Kiwis
  6. Lingonberries
  7. Nectarines
  8. Figs
  9. Limes
  10. Pineapples
  11. Blackberries

Top 10 Frozen Yogurt Toppings at Yogiberry in Bethesda

July 10, 2009
  1. Raspberries
  2. Strawberries
  3. Coconut
  4. Chocolate
  5. Cranberries
  6. Blueberries
  7. Mangoes
  8. Blackberries
  9. Granola
  10. Walnuts

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